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How to talk to your parents about Schoolies (without the freakout or lecture)

So you’ve got your heart set on Schoolies, but there’s just one tiny hurdle: convincing the parentals… Don’t worry, we’ve got you. 🤝
Check out our latest article for seriously foolproof tips to get even the strictest parents from a “yeah nah…” To a “heck yes.”
Because, honestly, between you and I, everyone deserves to experience a once in a life time Schoolies vaycay. 🤩

So, you wanna go to Schoolies?

Amazing, bestie! We can’t wait to see you there. But first, let’s tackle the parent hurdle. We've heard it all before, a lot of parents immediately have concerns when it comes to Schoolies, whether it's about safety, cost, or just generally getting a super strict parent to see it from your perspective.
So we're here to lend a helping hand with our top tips and tricks. If you follow this step-by-step guide, we know you’ll be packing your bags in no time. 🤞how-to-convince-your-parents-to-go-to-schoolies.png

STEP 1: Build your case 👩‍💻

Dig deep and be real with yourself—why do you really want to go to Schoolies? Like really, truly, honestly. Is it because it is your moment to celebrate the end of an era with the people you’ve shared the journey with… Or maybe it's just to absolutely let loose ;) there's no wrong answers, but it is important to get your WHY down pat, so you can use this to help convince your parents to let you live the Schoolies dream

So, lets take a minute. Ask yourself, why schoolies? And if you're stuck for ideas, maybe some of these resonate:

  • To celebrate 12+ years of schooling, all my hard work, late-night study sessions =, blood, sweat and a whole lot of tears.
  • To have one last hurrah with all my friends, classmates and my grade as whole.
  • To experience something entirely new, go somewhere I haven’t been before.
  • To travel, wanting to get out into the world and make some memories.
  • It's a once-in-a-lifetime experience, a true right of passage every grade 12 graduate deserves to experience.
  • To meet other Year 12s, make lifelong friends.
  • To have fun in an iconic Schoolies destination before real adulting kicks in.

Now with these reasons, up your sleeve it is time to build your parent pitch. But as a general rule of thumb, whatever your reason, you MUST make it clear and compelling.

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STEP 2: Do your research ✍️

Okay now, is the time to fill in the what and how. Come up with a proposed plan of your schoolies. 

Choose where to go?
First things first, head straight to Schoolies.com and find your ideal schoolies destination. Start with working out which destinations align with your why/vibe/interests. Bonus points for picking one that are well known for being safe and organised, your parents will approve. Obviously the Gold Coast is our number one recco, it's been the OG for Schoolies for many many years, welcoming the most graduates yearly out of every destination. With the most graduates, parties, events and of course, safety measures in place, it's a no-brainer for Schoolies. 🎉 Our exclusive islands, Fiji and Vanuatu, are also very popular picks with the parents. ✈️ The all-inclusive packages make for the most ideal Schoolies trip, with flights, meals, accommodation, activities, parties and more all included, they're the perfect pick if youre seeking a more exotic Schoolies vaycay.

Plan your Schoolies itinerary
Outline your schedule, who you will go with, activities, events, and downtime. Yes downtime is important, showing the rents you have a balance and will rest/nourish yourself is super important. 🙌

Know the costs
Prepare a budget of all Schoolies stuff, including travel, accommodation, meals, and activities but most importantly how you are going to fund it. 💸💸 Don't forget about pour payment options that make funding your schoolies easy as, your parents will love our fee free Flexi Pay plans, learn more about them here:

Facts are facts 
Where possible back up your pitch with facts or stories—whether it’s about how many students safely participate every year (40,000), or the thousands of reviews from past Schoolies raving about their experience. The proof is in the pudding. 😌
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STEP 3: Pick the perfect moment 👌

Okay now that you are armed with your why and pitch it's time to do the thing. 
Timing is everything. SRSLY Don’t hit them up when they’re stressed, just got home, or deep in their emails. Find a calm, relaxed moment—they’re way more likely to hear you out. 
Or you could 100% Start with a compliment to ease them in. 😉 Try:
  • “Dad, the lawn looks amazing! You know what else is amazing? Schoolies!”
  • “Mum, your hair looks fab—did you just get it done? Speaking of awesome things, I’d love to talk about Schoolies.”
Pro tip: If compliments don’t land, try showing some initiative. A few extra chores never hurt anyone. 🤭

STEP 4: Be ready for anything 🫡

Depending on how open your parents are to Schoolies it always pays to anticipate questions or worries your parents might have and prepare thoughtful, honest answers. This proactive approach can help in addressing their concerns effectively. 🫡
So what is your parents’ biggest concern? Your safety (always and forever). Reassure them with your own street smart skills but also drop in some of these Schoolies.com safety features:
Schoolies hotline: Our Schoolies team is on call 24/7 during the event for anything you need.
Red frogs: The MVPs of Schoolies—they walk you home, make pancakes, and provide emotional support.
On-ground support: Police, security, emergency services, and volunteers are all on-site to keep things safe.
You could also point them in the direction of our Parent Page for more peace of mind and important parent info. how-to-convince-your-parents-to-go-to-schoolies-3.png

STEP 5: Teamwork makes the dream work 🤝

Lets be real, it might take more than one convo for you to get them on board. which is why we suggest starting the conversation asap. Admittedly parents may take a while to come to terms with your request. You are growing up and this can cause them to feel all the feels which can totally affect their decision making.
On average it take 3-4 conversations for a person to change their mindset. Remember “good things take time" and working together you will only enrich your relationship and the experience. Knowing your parents are fangirling on the sidelines (or have at least approved) is 100% better than sneaking out the bedroom window. 

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STEP 7: The cherry on top 🍒

Now that you’ve got all the tools, you are ready, it’s time to make your move. Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day—be patient, stay calm, and keep the dream alive. Remeber the common roadblocks and be prepared to answer all the questions your parents might have about them:

  • Financials: Now is time to whip out Schoolies payment features and your budget. FlexiPay: Split the cost into manageable monthly payments. Plus Lower Deposits: Secure your spot for just $199—don't need to pay it all upfront.
  • Safety - refer them back to the many safety precautions taking place at Schoolies, and remember your parents are just looking out for you.

Fingers crossed we’ll see you at Schoolies. Go forth and slay!🤞how-to-convince-your-parents-to-go-to-schoolies-2.png

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